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Thoughts on love shyness and schizoid phenomena

It seems to me that there is an interesting relationship between love shyness and schizoid phenomena.  Here are some thoughts: I have often felt that a lot of love shyness is because of an intense feeling of desire that is … Continue reading

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Thoughts on how other people being too close can be smothering

When your oversentitive or have the ‘rift personality’ having someone being too close to you can have a smothering quality about it.  This can create a condition of feeling great discomfort or a desire to ‘get away’.   By being too … Continue reading

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The main solution to the ‘rift personality’ and oversensitivity is management

It seems to me that the main way to deal with oversensitivity and the ‘rift personality’ is in management.  In the ‘rift personality’ this comes naturally, in the form of the ‘crib reflex’ as I call it, of naturally putting yourself … Continue reading

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Thoughts on some aspects of the ‘Rift Personality’ type

There is something I now call the ‘Rift Personality’.  Previously I called it by other names.  I didn’t understand what it was at first but, as time went on, I’ve begun to understand and see this condition more clearly.  I’ve seen … Continue reading

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Thoughts on why love shyness is so hard to overcome

I feel that a lot of the reason why love shyness is hard to overcome is because it deals with such a critical and forceful passion.  The subject and passion that surrounds this subject is not something that one takes … Continue reading

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Thoughts on the association of love shyness with royal presence in British society

Over the years I often have this feeling that there is an association between love shyness and royal presence in British society.  Whether this is true or not I don’t know.  It seems that every where I turn in British … Continue reading

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Thoughts on love shyness and self-consciousness

(I wrote this in about 2008 and put it in a forum for guys who have problems with love shyness.) I also often feel that love-shyness is often related to an INTENSE SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS.  This seems to be a product of … Continue reading

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Thoughts on how to deal with love shyness???

(I probably wrote this in 2008.  I originally wrote this in a forum for those of us who are love shy.) I’ve often wondered what can really be done about love-shyness.  What can a person do?  To me, love-shyness is … Continue reading

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Thoughts on love-shyness and the reluctance to approach a female

(I probably wrote this in 2008.  I originally wrote this in a forum for those of us who have problems with love shyness.) I sometimes get the impression that there has not been enough reflection on why some of us … Continue reading

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Thoughts on love shyness, anti-depressants, and 5-HTP

(I think I wrote this in about 2008) (I wrote this just after discovering love shyness and wrote it as an ‘idea’.  Now I do not believe this explains most love shyness, though it may have an effect on some … Continue reading

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